The Countdown Begins
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| Fri, 10-03-2003 - 10:20pm |
Hi,
My OM/MM is a "Seasonal Lover." He's a fisherman and his season ends on Dec.15th. This is also the excuse he gives his W to get out of the house to see me. He's been married 34 yrs. and isn't about to cause suspicion by creating new habits. She knows him too well!!! He fishes May 15th -Dec. 15th and his other half tolerates it but knows his every move from Dec.-May.
Dec. 15th is only 10 short weeks away!!! Figuring in the fact that I have to come up with believable excuses for my H and my periods which can come 3-4 days early or late and last a week and how much time is left?
I am already anxious, nervous and starting to get depressed knowing that we have such a short time left and will be apart for so many months. I plan to cherish every moment and create warm memories to hold me through the long, cold, lonely Winter and most of Spring. Even still I have an ache in the pit of my stomach already.
I am going to need MEGA-support to help me through. I'm hurting already!

I understand although my time away from MM is spread throughout the year. I see him only once or twice a month. We talk every day. Have you been through this before? Does he contact you during these long months of not seeing each other? Isn't there any way that he can see or talk to you?
We are here for you!
Hugs
RH
We only see each other for 2 to 2 1/2 hours every three to four weeks now. I've only been involved with him since May (beginning of fishing season). We e-mail and IM ,leave voice mails on our cells but it's hit and miss. His PC is in the Family Room and with his W and three adult chldren sharing the computer and/or being in the room watching TV it's hard for him to have privacy or even get online sometimes. There's NC on weekends at all. :(
I'm also afraid that he might not come back to me in May. He might have a change of heart or something!
Thank God there are places like this to vent and get support and people like you who care! :)