My OM/MM is acting strange...
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My OM/MM is acting strange...
| Sat, 10-04-2003 - 10:13am |
I talked with my OM/MM on the phone yesterday while he was at work and his whole attitude and persona was cocky and out of sorts. He had co-workers around him etc and i just had werid vibes from the conversation. WHich was so odd, because the night before our phone conversation was great and in depth and meaningful etc. Then such a switch the next day???? He emailed me later and apologized so I know it wasn't just my imagination....but why did he do that? He also asked me to call him between 7-9 pm because he couldn't call me (my H was home) so i left and went to call him, and when I turned on my cell phone there was a message that said, Don't call me after 7:30pm.. go figure? So.... I didn't get to talk to him, I was kind of glad I didn't because I'm not happy with him right now, I am kinda feeling like this A could be over for me and that would be ok....My emotions are just so out there. One minute I can't be without him and the next....I don't want to even talk to him.
Any Thoughts? ~Wishing~

Could it be that his strange attitude on the phone was BECAUSE he had co-workers around??? Or have you had personal conversations with him in the past when various co-workers were able to overhear??? Or maybe it was due to WHO the particular co-workers were and he didn't want that particular person listening in on his conversation with you. I know that I really don't like having personal phone conversations (with MM or with other friends and family) knowing my co-workers can listen in. Personally, I don't want certain co-workers to get glimpses into what is going on in my life.
Anyway, I know how hard it is to deal with the rapid "night and day" changes that MM exhibit to us. Hopefully, you'll talk to him soon and he'll be able to let you know what was going on. And at least your MM was aware of his mood and apologized before you even questioned him.
Hugs,
Annika
Brightest Blessings, Annika
Let him contact you next! See how he is -- it might have been a fluke thing. I know I have tended to jump to conclusions that were wrong when my MM acted strange or distant in a conversation or an email. I'm getting better with it now; it's usually nothing.
Let us know.
Wishing~