How do you go about ending it?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2003
How do you go about ending it?
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Tue, 10-14-2003 - 3:41pm
I have decided that my relationship with my fiance is worth more to me than what I have with the OM. While I care about him, I love my fiance and he deserves more from me. My question is...how do I go about this without hurting OM too much. And how do I stay away? Does anyone have any advice?

eightsgrl

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
Tue, 10-14-2003 - 8:20pm

Hi eightsgrl,


I would just be open and honest with OM... tell him exactly what you have said to us... that you care very much... but that you care more about your fiance and you want and need to make it work.


If he at all cares for you... he will understand.


As for keeping to your word... you must have the strength... can't offer any words of wisdom... but maybe the Endings board can help you out a little.


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlending


I wish you all the best in love and life.


luv and hugs

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