You can make things work...

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Registered: 06-24-2003
You can make things work...
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Wed, 10-15-2003 - 3:41am

Just for Liberal and anyone else in similar situations... when you both wanting something to work... you will compromise and find a way.


Was just thinking back to Libs baby talk and thinking how life if going to change for me next year with my little man starting Kinder.

Sweet
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 10-15-2003 - 9:49am
I have pretty much come to that conclusion with my A. Last night our plans, which seemed to be flawless, got absolutely tweeked by a one in a million chance, but none the less, it happened and messed us up. Bottom line though is that we dealt with it. Both of us were frustrated that our perfect plans quickly went to hell on us but none the less we decided to snag our opportunity for a 10 minute quicky. My OM asked why things cant just be easy for us and I answered him that good things never come easy which he agreed was true but still sucked! LOL

On my way home (grinning ear to ear of course) - I became thankful for the time we did get, afterall we could have gotten 0 minutes instead of the 10 or so we had...last night made me realize that when life deals us lemons we can in fact enjoy a refreshing glass of lemonaid just to temporarily quench our thirst! LOL I can honestly admit that our time last night gave a whole new meaning to quicky and although we typically refrain unless we have the time we desire - it ROCKED to just get crazy and act like an animal with him - another experience we have never shared in our two years together...

We have plans to spend Saturday together - a whole day thing - Once again, our plan seems flawless but we'll see how it will play out...we always have the best of intentions and as long as the intent is there when things don't go our way it helps us to understand and wait patiently for next time...

A quick note on the baby thing...somethings have changed in me over the past few days and although Im not ready yet...I feel like I am thinking clearer and the thought of being a mom isnt making me nauscious anymore...LOL

Liberal

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Registered: 09-20-2003
Thu, 10-16-2003 - 12:38am
Sweet, thanks so much for your final thought for the day!!! The timing was perfect. I'm temporarily going to be working in a different city than MM for about 6 months, and I was stressing myself out because during the "work" hours is our only time together and how are we going to have this time if I'm not even in the same city as he is. I talked to MM about this and he said the same thing your MM did, that we will find a way to spend some time together. And its so true, if something is important, there are compromises that can be made so that things will work out.

Annika

Brightest Blessings, Annika