He's enough to drive me MAD!!!

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Registered: 07-27-2003
He's enough to drive me MAD!!!
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Sun, 11-23-2003 - 11:22pm
MM has been distant lately; I know that he has been busy, but for the past couple of weeks our communication has been short -- short phone calls, quick emails, etc. I hadn't heard from him in a couple of days (and was beginning to get extremely annoyed)and BANG! -- I get a phone call telling me that there may be a possibility (through his arranging) that we may be able to work together again next fall...a long way off, but he was really excited (and of course so AM I!!!!!!!!!).

Still trying to figure this man out....

Oh well, just wanted to share my good news...and MM's strange/annoying/confusing behavior.

Charlotte

 

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Registered: 10-23-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 8:30am
If it's gotta penis it will confuse you...LOL *wink*

Men are so unpredictable and I know they feel the same about us but GEEZZZZZ talk about one extreme to another....

My conversations and time with my OM have been limited for the past several months...its taken some getting used to but Im adjusting quite nicely eventhough it's taken some time and alot of frustration and wore on my patience...

Best of luck to you Charlotte!

cl-liberalgirl

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 2:39pm
I think most men are brief with their conversation and most do not like talking on the phone like women do. I send my MM long e-mails and he responds to me with two sentences. At least he always responds. Remember, they do not multi-task like women do. Work could be keeping him too busy right now. Savor the brief conversations and save the really good e-mails to read again and again.
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Mon, 11-24-2003 - 2:55pm
Are you married? The guy I have been seeing is divorced. He has me believing he would be there for me if I left my husband, but he'll go days w/o calling me. I feel like I always make the first move I chased him around last year for months, this time the tables are turned, and I've told him that, but he always seems so confident on the phone, but when we're together he seems so nervous, do you think this is good or bad? And men say they can't understand women......
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Registered: 10-24-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 4:55pm
I'm glad you finally heard from your OM, Charlotte. Do you ever wonder how crazy they make us? lol
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Registered: 08-23-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 9:22pm
I really dislike when my MM does that too. One day he is very loving and misses me and sends 5 or up to 8 emails a day then poof the next day I'm lucky if I get one email. It just all depends on his work schedule.

I "think" we are a even streak then bang! We're not. It's hard to figure them out. It aggravates the heck out of me. Arrggg!!
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Registered: 07-27-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 9:27pm
isunshine

yes...arrrgggg!!! Sometimes I wish he was in front of me just so I could smack him!! -- Or smack some sense into him!!!

Thanks to all you lovely ladies for your replies.

Charlotte

 

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 9:44pm

Hey Charlotte,


Glad to hear that you got some good news hon...


and I think Liberal got it right :-D


while mostly MM and I seem to have each other tuned in... man he sometimes confuses me.

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