Do I tell him I want a divorce?
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Do I tell him I want a divorce?
| Mon, 11-24-2003 - 2:17pm |
Please, I need some advice!!! In short, my husband and I already seperated once because we had affairs. We got back together & moved out of state to try to keep our marriage together. We recently moved back to the town we moved a way from, & I have been seeing the man I had an affair with before, but I haven't been honest with him either. He thinks that my husband and I are seperated & have decided to get a divorce. I have such a strong attraction to this man, I feel like he & I are meant to be, & I feel as if I've outgrown my husband ( we have been together scince I was 17) now I am 24. My husband doesn't have a clue. We do have 3 children together, & I don't want to hurt him again, but if he were to find out he would be devastated. HELP!!!!!

you are only 24 and already you've been married, had 3 children, separated, had one A and now back to the A after moving away to "start over" -- so what is it that you want? i think you need to consider some counseling, either by yourself to get your head on straight and to figure out your priorities, or with your H to see if you can make this M work.
good luck,
gurl