O.K. Gay friend not Gay?

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Registered: 11-20-2003
O.K. Gay friend not Gay?
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Mon, 11-24-2003 - 4:25pm
I cannot describe my life!!! LOL!!! I'm married and my ex is hanging around. Okay, that I already wrote about previously. Anyways...this weekend I went out with some friends. One of my male frends is gay. He has never had sex(intercourse) with either sex. We were all dancing, having a good time. He was totally ALL OVER me. I was totally all over him. I've always found him attractive. I'm confused. We haven't spoken since the weekend. He is a friend of a friend(female). So, we usually only talk when we're all together anyways. Anyways that night we kept trying to ditch our mutual friend(female). She had no idea what was going on. She walked by at one point and said, 'What are you guys doing, making out? Ha! Ha!' We were both like, ah no! But, we were just about to! LOL! So, was that a memory lapse on his part, you think? LOL! He use to live with a guy and they fooled around, but no sex. He said he's fooled around with a woman, but no sex. I don't really have a queation. Just wanted some comments I guess. Medea
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Registered: 11-17-2003
Mon, 11-24-2003 - 4:29pm
The easy answer there is that your friend is exploring his sexuality. He's experimented with both, never completed the deal with either, so he doesn't feel locked in. I say "yay for him"!

Maybe he's bi, or the coin just won't come down on one side or the other until he's had more experiences with both.