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I should introduce myself....
| Mon, 11-24-2003 - 11:57pm |
I am Tammy..... I have been with my H (actually BF) for 15 years and I think our relationship was basically a mistake, but we are trying to 'work it out' for the kids sake. We have two together that we want to share in raising together. My EMA is a total surprise to me, and I still can't believe its happening! I met the man a little over a year ago, and we just clicked! And one day I started working for him in his business. I started working there back in February. We spend every day together in the office and we just have grown very close to each other. One day, back in May, I took a day long trip with him to do some inventory for the business (his business is leasing equipment to other businesses and we needed a full accounting of what he owns) And we spent the day together talking. We stopped at a wayside so I could go to the bathroom and he showed me a really cool looking tree and the next thing I knew, I was kissing him. It just happened so naturally. We talked all the way back home about what to do next, since we discovered we really had some pretty strong feelings for one another. And of course, we didn't resolve anything that day. We kept talking about it, over the next couple of weeks and about the middle of June, we took another day trip together for building materials. When we were all done, he said, "So, what should we do now? we have some time to kill!" I just said, "Whatever you want, I am flexible" and he said "What I really want is to find a hotel room and make mad passionate love to you" and I said "OK, so lets" partially kidding. Well, the next thing I know, thats EXACTLY what we did! Because we are in a small town, we have to be really careful, because well, everyone knows EVERYONE! And since then, we have found it difficult to find time alone that we aren't being 'spied' on. So, our time together takes place away from town... we usually try to make a trip either north or south of town at least twice a month for just us time. I don't care about my relationship with BF as I am positive its over, but because BF found out about me and MM, I try to keep things cool at home so that he doesn't run and tell MM's W, since MM is trying to keep his relationship with his wife 'together' as much as possible for now at least. He still loves his W and they have been married for a long time and doesn't feel ready to give it up. At the same time, he has told me that he loves me a great deal and wants us to always be friends (right now, I can't see that not happening! We are always going to be friends!). We share so much in common. Our interests are pretty similar. We like the same movies, the same music, the same sports, we even enjoy the same workout routines. Our summer consisted of morning walks on the beach, with my son and working out at the Y together. We go swimming, love to hunt and fish together, camping is something we want to try doing together too, eventually. We spent a weekend in Vegas, and both decided that wasn't our cup of tea. Its just been a great all around relationship. There is one downfall to the whole thing though, if his W ever finds out, I LOSE my job. Right now, I am the sole support of my family, so you can imagine how protective I am of MM with keeping this quiet. If the W ever came and asked if I was having an A with her husband, I would LIE through my teeth to convince her otherwise, that is for sure!
Anyhow, thats my story! I wanted to share with you all and at least give you some background on me and MM. Hes my best friend. I do not know what I would do without him!
Tam
