Well, I'm going to SLAP him !!
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Well, I'm going to SLAP him !!
| Tue, 11-25-2003 - 12:19pm |
Unlike some other women here who are happy and have heard from their MM, I am really P***ED off at mine!! We were supposed to get together today, I have not heard from him. Although I was probably going to make up an excuse and not see him today anyways.
But that's besides the point!! He is rude. And I don't think we should have to sit here holding our breath waiting for a little crumb from them.
Boy, if he was here right now, I would slap him!! You betcha.
And tell him have a nice Thanksgiving, enjoy the turkey, because you won't be getting the dessert!!
But that's besides the point!! He is rude. And I don't think we should have to sit here holding our breath waiting for a little crumb from them.
Boy, if he was here right now, I would slap him!! You betcha.
And tell him have a nice Thanksgiving, enjoy the turkey, because you won't be getting the dessert!!

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You go girl...... again like someone said earlier (sorry losing brain matter to myA)
Thanksgiving day is no excuse for being downright rude, inconsiderate, uncaring
and plain mean. Try to take it one day at time. Do something nice for yourself.
I did the shopping therapy again but have to be careful with that... cash only.
Have I mention buying shoes helps more than other stuff???
Am i nuts??? It really does! You should see how many I have though.
Love to chat more if you'd like to write me at
Debrab710@earthlink.net... I check my email everyday.
Forgive me but right now I am envious of all the happy people. I know that
is wrong and I am working on it but just irks me.
I feel I am deserving of some happiness too, that's all.
hugs and peace to you,
Deb
and don't waste one more minute thinking about MM or holding onto that anger. it's poisonous! go do something wonderful for yourself, buy a cool pair of shoes, get a great manicure, whatever! get out of the house and away from the computer for awhile. take a walk or a drive.
and the next time MM calls, tell him to GET LOST (not what i wanted to write but ivillage won't let me)!! when he asks why, tell him it's because you're an insensitive, non-communicative, disrespectful guy who can't pick up a phone. then hang up. HARD!!
hugs,
gurl
Deb...you hang in there too hon!! I completely understand how you would be envious and even annoyed with the 'happy' people here at the moment. You are right -- you DO deserve some happiness too. Turn that sadness into anger. Hold your head up and tell yourself (and THEN HIM -- when the opportunity arises) that you're not going to take his BS anymore. I know being angry is a crappy way to feel, but it's a hell of a lot better than feeling down. Oh and by the way, loved this: "Have I mentioned buying shoes helps more than other stuff??? Am i nuts???" You're nut nuts! You are strong enough to maintain a sense of humor even in the midst of your pain.
dusty and deb...I know it's rough; I truly hope you two will be able to enjoy your Thanksgiving holidays...dont' forget Black Friday -- talk about shopping therapy!!
Charlotte
But you are right about doing something nice. I've already been making plans for tonight with my kids, and not thinking about him.
So let him have his busy life and nice little "happy" family Thanksgiving. Good for him, I'm not going to let any poisonous thoughts wreck mine. And when I'm with MY family, I don't really think about him very much anymore. I think this is maybe the beginning of the end ...
we'll see.
tell MM or don't -- that's completely your call, girl. but if you don't let MM know exactly how you feel and what you WILL NOT put up with, then he will continue to treat you exactly as he has been. same holds true with anyone who is not doing right by you.
just speak up, IT ONLY HURTS FOR A SECOND! the fallout will be difficult but in the long run, you will have stood up for yourself and that FEELS DARN GOOD!!
gurl
Take several deep breaths and remember you are in control here. Let him know that you are not pleased with his not contacting you. Then leave the ball in his court.
He better make it up to you.
Take care and sending hugs.
Life
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