He left his wife or she left him....
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| Wed, 11-26-2003 - 10:55am |
My world has suddenly changed, our playing feild is now uneven! My MM and his W have seperated. She left and moved out 3 days ago. She is moving into an apartment with the kids and says that she knows there relationship is over. They have been trying to work on it for the last 5 years. She thinks he is seeing someone he works with, has no idea he is seeing me. I guess she got these supsicousions because of all the over time he is working lately. He said, he is working overtime to stay away from her.
Anyway, now....I am still M and am finding it hard to stay centered. I want to be with my MM I(now what do I call him?) hee hee SMM? Seperated married man. Gosh I have no idea what is going to happen now. We want to be together and would like to get married in the future.... He said let me get through my divorce and then you will go through it and I can be there to help you... I think it's good advice but it is going to be a long road.
I just wanted to give an update and see if anyone has any words of advice or wisdom for me, I appreciate it so much.
On, a good note, I am spending the weekend with him and can hardly wait.
Wishing~

Thanks, Wishing
Edited 12/1/2003 9:08:43 PM ET by stillwingy
I hope things work out for you.
But what I want to know is, how are you able to get away for a weekend, being married? Having been a faithful, homebody wife for 34 years, I am racking my brain to find a way to do just that with my long distance lover. What do you do?
Legs
I have family in a few cities away were my MM lives, I'm just going to visit them and my family keeps the kids for me. My sister is a godsend !
Hope that helps some, Wishing
Thanks so much for your words of wisdom and encouragement. I appreciate it so much. Although this is getting jumpstarted etc. we would have had to wait 15 yrs to be together because the plan was orginially that we'd wait until the kids were grown.....now things have really changed. I do plan on enjoying every moment with him this weekend. Thanks again and I'll keep sending pixie dust your way that your MM leaves soon. We all need to be happy ! Hugs, Wishing
I wish you luck and happy holidays!
Hi wishing,
I don't know that I can offer any advice for you on this one... it's one place I don't think I'll ever be.
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