Something secret?

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Registered: 10-28-2003
Something secret?
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Thu, 11-27-2003 - 5:01am
Hello everyone, trying to mentally prepare for the season..

Just need some ideas. MM and I will have NC for two week during the Christmas break, and like a lot of you going to be tough, tough!!! Maybe we can have a word or two through messages on the cell, but never conversations. I thought about saying, that each day at whatever time, we think really hard about each other.

And what about that kiss on New Year's, will be kissing all around him, and not me, and the same for me kissing DH and all. So thought about saying at 12:05AM, when all the kissing is done, we take a moment and drink some bubbly and think of each other real hard, trying to make the souls cross the distance and meet. What is everyone else doing, or is anyone planning on doing something like this??

As for the sadness, I will come here and cry, when I get back to being close enough to the computer, in-laws don't have one.

Happy Turkey Day... be strong, we will make it through it.

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Thu, 11-27-2003 - 10:52am
MM and i have yet to go through nc and won't during the holidays, either. However, i haven't been brave enough to broach the subject of new years to him. It's very important to me. i dont know why, it never really has been before, but Turkey day without him, Christmas without him, all that i can handle. But new years w/o him breaks my heart for some reason and i am afraid to ask him about it in case he won't be with me. He may very well decide to be with me i have no idea. Guess i won't know 'til i get brave enough to ask LOL.

jen

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 11-27-2003 - 2:04pm
Hi Mitzy. Getting thru the holidays can be a little tough, last year we managed to sneak in a visit between Xmas and new year's but the year before we went about a week or so with NC pretty well. Maybe just a quick email, that was about it. We didn't say anything like "think about me". Although I did think about him every night when I went to bed, and after the holidays were over, he told me he thought about me alot when he went to bed also. Maybe that's the time that most lovers do think of each other?? Anyways, when you have a week or so NC, it makes the getting together after it, all that much better!! Best wishes and happy Thanksgiving to you.

Dusty
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Thu, 11-27-2003 - 8:50pm
I went through the holiday season with him last year and it broke me. We were together before christmas and then he took off for the mountains with the family. That hurt like hell. He did keep in contact throughout, but still. It didn't seem enough. I was feeling so bad that I wound up ending it. Well, needless to say it didn't last long because I'm going to put myself through it again this year. Go figure.

I'm not looking forward to it and it sucks like hell, but I love him and i know he loves me.
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Registered: 07-09-2003
Fri, 11-28-2003 - 8:15am
I am working except for 25-28 so I will see MM at work and we will probably see each other sometime while we are not at work. But MM & DS are going away for 4 days on the 31 so I won't get to see him but I imagine I will talk to him sometime during those days. Luckily next year we will be together.

HG