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| Thu, 11-27-2003 - 11:51am |
Hi everyone...
I'm posting because i'm confused. I have so many feelings and i wish i could gush to my MM but it's impossible. We only communicate during work... via email and occasional cell phone calls and it's all very light hearted and sometimes a little naughty. It's very fun but i would love to get inside him, know him, not just his sexual fantasies... I'm alittle afraid of being shut down.
It's very early...only a month into this EMA... should i just play it one day at a time?
are any of you involved in just sex relationships... and do you find that to be enough? I'm not really prepared only for that... but i know the limitations of being in an EMA...
does anyone have any advice?

Sounds to me like you are intrested in more than just the sex.
Good luck,
dayz
And if I really wanted more, I wouldn't be in this kind of relationship. I told him a while ago, I had been thinking of leaving my husband and that if I did, I would be dating people. That gave him something to think about.
Anyways, I would say, just try to stay relaxed and enjoy things. Sometimes I get a little moody and have to remind myself, this is a dessert for me, not the main course. Same thing for him.