wanting an affair w/ older man

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-02-2003
wanting an affair w/ older man
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Tue, 12-02-2003 - 5:29pm
i am so thrilled to have found this board! i am not sure if this is an appropriate place to ask this questions. but i need some advice. (feel free to inform me if this in not the place.) For almost a year now, I have had a thing for my son's (19 months old) peditrician. Tom is almost 58. I am 24. This summer I worked for Tom in his office. We flirted non-stop, I became in the local theatre because of him, he comes by the house when my husband is out, etc. We have never fully admitted anything. I have told him that I have a crush on him. He replied, "I'm twice your age. You can do better." But he started after that coming around more often, calling, inviting me for coffee, etc. I want to step this up a notch. Any suggestions? He is interested, I can tell. I am assistant director for a play at the theatre and he is always coming by the theatre to see me.

Thanks

Mic

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2003
Wed, 12-03-2003 - 10:59pm
Make him an offer he can't refuse and then rock his world. If he is interested and wants it then he will act upon his desires. Good luck and enjoy the thrill.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 12:50am
I like the advice you give, partnrncrime and I agree with it completely. You can step it up, Mic! Enjoy your A like a fine champagne.
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Registered: 10-10-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 2:36am
I am in a rather simular situation. I am on the other side of an affair with an older man. I am 20, he is 57 ( my professor), but I am very happy. I have always been interested in older men. The man I am dating now treats me very well and knows how to please me more then any man my age does that I have ever been with.

I think if it is what you want ( and you should think long and hard about that and how it will effect the relationship with your husband and always remember to stay true to your own heart) then go for it and Good luck!