Charlotte, you were right!

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Registered: 10-14-2003
Charlotte, you were right!
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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 9:50am
Charlotte,


Mm is back today. Suffice it to say, the sparks are still there. I don't think I have ever had so many butterflies in my tummy! :-) Not sure if we will get any alone time today or not, but we stole a few seconds where he made sure I still knew that he wanted me!! My heart is beating faster just thinking about it.

Kitty

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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 11:43am
Hey kitty

Great to hear!! So glad I was right. I think we all forget too often (and too easily) that these MM usually want and miss us just as much as we do them. Really happy for you -- I know how tough that waiting and wondering was for you.

Keep us posted on how it goes when you two finally get some REAL alone time!!

Charlotte

 

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Wed, 12-03-2003 - 3:46pm
We got some! Um, time alone, I mean. Oh, who am I kidding, we got some of THAT too! :-) I was so nice to see him again. *happy sigh* And so deeper into the pit I fall. That whole sex without feelings things sure sounded nice. I mean this is great too, but I know I have feelings for MM now & I know eventually - its gonna hurt. Oh well, with all of the bad stuff going on in my life- I will cling to the good stuff, including my new feelings for MM.

Kitty

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Thu, 12-04-2003 - 10:04am
"That whole sex without feelings things sure sounded nice." Yup -- it's a great idea in theory! Glad you got some real time with him!

Enjoy the high...

Charlotte

 

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Registered: 10-23-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 10:13am
HA! You're talking to the "QUEEN OF SEX WITHOUT FEELING WANNA-BE" ... I talked the talk but couldnt walk the walk....LOL

cl-liberalgirl

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Thu, 12-04-2003 - 10:15am
LOL too...we are (were) so full of crap! Can I say that?!!

 

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 10:35am
Chalk up another case of "sex with no feelings". It is a load of crap really. You can't help developing feelings, and getting them hurt occassionally too. I wonder if the guys get the feelings too, even though they say its only for the sex. Or are they THAT much different than we are? Any ideas on that?
xxxx
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Registered: 07-27-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 11:10am
hey dusty

I think they feel it too...they just can't (or don't want to) express or deal with it like we do. Sex is an emotional thing whether you want it that way or not.

JMHO

Charlotte

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-04-2003 - 1:09pm
dusty, of course, men have the same feelings, they just stuff them deep down and don't want to show their "soft" side, not very macho, is it! but when a man starts to express those feelings, watch out, because the walls are coming down and everything just starts to tumble out and about!

and sometimes you can separate the sex from the love, want, need. but when the R continues for a period of time (depending on your emotional outlook - you know, falling head over heels every time all the way to holding your feelings back no matter what), eventually we all FALL! just the way it is in any kind of relationship.

gurl

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Thu, 12-04-2003 - 3:24pm
You know gurl, I think your right. Just got back from little rendezvous with MM. It was very sweet today, more nice caresses than usual from him. He is very into making sure I totally enjoy myself when we are together. It made me think he does have some kind of feeling for me. We've been together 2 years now. Poor man, I tired him out today! When I left him at the hotel, he was having a little nap to recover!!

Wow, what an afternoon!! It was terrific. Can't wait til next time!!

(sorry to rub it in but I'm happy)

Dusty

xxxx
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Thu, 12-04-2003 - 3:37pm
oh of course your MM has feelings for you dusty -- after all, he's not a sociopath, right?! you can always tell when a man has more feelings than he's expressing when he stays a little bit longer, cuddles with you after sex, rubs your arm while talking about the rest of the day's plans, etc. dead giveaways, for sure! and dontcha just love "nap time" -- i feel so safe and secure in that soft zone between the high of the sex and moving on with the day. ahhhh, just thinking about it (AND MM!!) puts a smile on my face!!

and you go ahead honey and rub it in. when you're happy, shout it from the virtual rooftops!! that's why we're here -- the proverbial rollercoaster!

enjoy,

gurl