Yikes! Busted

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Registered: 12-01-2003
Yikes! Busted
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Wed, 12-10-2003 - 12:48am
That was really not on the agenda. Busted by my mother. She hasn't said anythingbut...I'm waiting. Now what? MM found it funny.Joked he's never seen my face that red.Any way just needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening ladies your the best.
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Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: dareangel99
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 7:03am
Ouch... That would really suck to get busted by your mom!!

Keep us posted as to what happens next

 Seeburg    

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: dareangel99
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 8:22am
Do give us the details Dareangel!!! Geez, keep us hangin!!!! LOL

I think Im more careful with what I say and do around my mother than anyone because she's so intuitive that it's scarey! Like any mother I s'pose!!!

I have told my Mom that I have contact with my OM, who is her best friend's son...I have also told her that my DH has NO USE for him whatsoever and never to mention his name in front of my DH which she accidently did this summer and it was evident to her that he hates him when his face went flush at the mention of his name...I think if my mom thought really hard that she'd be able to put 2 and 2 together enough to get suspicious but she hasnt yet, that I know of. One things for sure, if she suspects anything, she'll confront me...that will be the true test of my ability to weasel out of a mess and apply my deny, deny, deny tactics...one things for sure, I'd never admit it, even to my mother who is my best friend...but she's my mom, she'd know regardless of my admitting it to her or not...

cl-liberalgirl

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: dareangel99
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 9:47am
My mom knows MM and a few months ago I think she seriously suspected something was going on. Maybe she still does. She kept telling me that no one would treat me as well as H does and then one day she confided to me that she thought MM had a "crush" on me. He got a real kick out of that. She said she didn't think MM would go to the extra trouble of talking to her when he sees her and I'm not around if he didn't have a crush on me. I told her he's just a really nice guy and that's how he is with everyone, but he probably did think I was attractive. He is, after all, a horn dog, as I always call him!

I can't imagine getting busted, though. Did she walk in on you or what? MM would freak out if ANYONE caught us doing anything. He's super-paranoid W is going to find out and if my mom caught us, he'd be sure she was going to tell everyone.

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Registered: 11-17-2003
In reply to: dareangel99
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 9:57am
Uh, yeah, let's have the story!

It's funny as s*%$ when a group of us get together and my mom and SG are both there (especially since she's only 5 years older than him!). One time a few weeks ago he and I and another friend from work were standing around talking with her and her new H (who left his previous W for mom!), and I just know she saw him caress my behind, stroke my hand and touch my side. I almost want to tell her, just because I know she's been in so many EMA's! And because of this I think she probably can "read" us when we're together. But she's also gotten to really like DH over the past few years, so she may not be happy about me having an A when he's such a great guy, and her XH's were pieces of crap.

So, let's hear some other people's stories about how their OM/OW has interacted with their mom!

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Registered: 05-20-2003
In reply to: dareangel99
Wed, 12-10-2003 - 11:40am
After the breakup of my marriage - of course I went crying to Mommy! As I was sobbing in her arms, she asked me what happened. I just sobbed harder, and she said, "Seeing someone else?" I couldn't even talk, I just nodded. Then she said my OM's name right off the bat - first try. I couldn't believe it. OM and I were VERY, VERY discreet. NOBODY knew about us. But, like someone else said - must be mom's intuition. OM and I are now exclusive, and she just loves him to pieces! Thank God!