Well I did it!
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| Wed, 03-10-2004 - 10:53pm |
Here is my story! I can't say I am actually having an affair, but when it comes down to it, I am. I filed for divorce some time ago. It is just now being finalized. I have a friend at work, we've been very close friends for some time. Actually he has been a great listener. And just an overall great guy. After some of the divorce issues cooled down, for the most part, my friend revealed to me that he has been "in love" with me for about a year. he's kept it to himself for rational reasons. Yep, you guessed it, he is married. He told me he wanted to have an affair with me and has wanted to be intimate for many reasons. It has only since come out because he and his wife are moving across the country. She has moved already while he is still here for a few more weeks. He is 53 and I am 34. At first I was shocked! "why me". Then I felt intrigued and interested. Well we acted on it. It has been so great, wonderful! I know it is short lived. We've been getting together for a little over a month. He moves at the end of March. We spend as much time as we can together. We still work together. He tells me that if he could he would snag me up. That he could be so in love with me. He even said he had thoughts of us together and he helping to raise my three children. That he is in love with me but loves his wife. I like hearing these things, but it hurts. It also hurts because I know he won't leave his wife, who is much different than I. He has told me that i have been everything he has been expecting this affair to be. Which just makes me even more sad.I cry at the loss that is about to happen. It seems unfair, I know when he leaves I will probably never see him again! THe sex is great, the talks are awesome, the time spent has meant so much to me. He has treated me like I was hoping my ex would have treated me. Which just bothers me more, because we seem so compatible.
Anyway, it just feels good to get it out there! I don't have anyone to share this with. I don't want him to get "caught". I know this isn't an affair just for sex, there's more to it, which probably makes it all the more difficult. I know there are many losses in life. Thanks just for reading!

hi ikymberann and welcome to the board!
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