devastated and stunned, it's over
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| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 1:13pm |
Yesterday we were talking about going on vacation to Disney together. Now he says it's over. Telling his W about the possible trip led to a conversation between them about how this is tearing her apart. He says maybe we can still be friends. i can't be friends with the man i love.
the problem is, since i left my marriage, i am alone. i don't have anyone to call when i don't know how to do something around the house. My soon to be ex is not civil to me. i don't have any close girlfriends who live in my state. i have no one, i have tried to find more friends but am not doing a very good job. i am home with my daguther in the morning and work 4-midngit.
He was buying me all my groceries, and now i don't know where to get the money from. He gave me gas money. We talked all day long. We saw each other every day. Now it's just..over??
He told me over, and over, and OVER, almost daily, not to worry abou the future, that while he wasn't leaving his wife for me he would never leave me, and i could depend on him. How do i trust anyone ever after this, and what guy is going to want me anyway. i have a child, and a broken heart.
if i had seen it coming perhaps i wouldn't be so overwhlmed. i can't stop crying. just the other day i was telling you all how happy i was. How can i ever trust again. i am so damaged.
i love this man more than anyone else in the world, we have a connection, more than anyone i have ever been with. he's only my second when it comes to sex. i love him so very much.
Maybe i can be friends with him. i just dont nkow what to do.
Thanks,
jenny
Edited 3/11/2004 1:16 pm ET ET by jennlynnk

::HUGS::
Oh, Jenn, I'm so sorry! I know you are miserable right now. You'll be in my thoughts and if there is anything I can do, please let me know.
Hang in there, love your daughter and don't give up hope. Your future may not be with MM, but you _do_ have one and I'm sure that you will make it a beautiful one.
"Tears may last through the night, but joy cometh in the morning."
Cazrida
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((((Jenny)))), I'm sorry that this has happened.
jenn, honey, i am so sorry about how the R/A ended!
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
I'm so sorry to hear this.Please know you can count on us.
Renee
I am so sorry sweety....
If you need an ear...EVER...
E-mail me your phone number...I'll call you, and you can cry on my shoulder...
Buckarooblues@aol.com
Or put me on AOL/AIM if you have it, but e-mail me you did, as I'd have to add you to my list...
Or Buckaroobluestoo for Yahoo chat...
Or Buckarooblues@hotmail.com for MSN messenger...
Easiest way would be to send me your phone number...I have lots of minutes to use...
=)
Laurie
((((((((((jenny))))))))))))))))))