How did you meet your MM?

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How did you meet your MM?
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Sun, 03-14-2004 - 11:24am
Just curious...

I can't imagine getting involved with someone I work with or who my DH knows well, but I realize some people do. Where else have you ladies met your MMs?

Sorry if this has been asked tons of times..


Edited 3/14/2004 12:28 pm ET ET by dallastrigirl

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sun, 03-14-2004 - 1:38pm

Hi dallas.


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Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 03-14-2004 - 2:43pm
I met my MM on the internet... WE chatted, got to know more about each other, such as the fact we only live 4 miles apart, kids go to same schools etc. We met in person, hit it off and 6 months later here we are

SB

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Registered: 06-24-2003
Sun, 03-14-2004 - 7:57pm

Hi dallas,


I met MM in an Adult chat room... one day he just PM'd me and we just got to chatting... nothing sexual.

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Sun, 03-14-2004 - 8:42pm


Hi Dallas,

I met my married man July 1 in a chat we both attend. He IM'd me, flirting and I turned him down cold. (For some reason I saved that IM, still have it. LOL)

We talked on the phone the next day about some work we were doing in common, but didn't talk again on the phone for a couple of months. I wound up having an emergency appendectomy in August and was out of work for two months. During the same time, I had several crises going on at home, and he spent hours talking with me, listening, encouraging and just making me laugh.

He made me question a lot of things I'd always taken for granted, and gradually we grew closer and closer.

He lives about two hours away from me, and we finally met in November. Things were already pretty serious by then, and combustible to boot! ::grins::

My life is still fairly unsettled, and I'm not sure where we're going to end up, but we do love each other. We see each other as often as possible and talk or email almost every day.

I tried to put my running shoes back on last week. (I hate the weekends and NC...decided I couldn't handle it any more.) That lasted about twenty-four hours. He _definitely_ isn't ready for this to be just friends. (Truthfully, I'm not either.) Anyway, got emails and phone call this weekend, so he's doing his part.

LOL...I guess I needed to talk. You wanted to know how we met? Online. ROFL

Cazrida

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Sun, 03-14-2004 - 8:55pm
Hi Caz!!! i always have to say hi, cuz our situations are so similar. Glad you guys are doing well.

My MM was technically my best friends MM. They were together about a week and a half and then we met and the rest is history. Best friend doesn't talk to me anymore.... i swear i am not as evil as it sounds..... she was pretty nasty to both of us before we even got together.

i knew as soon as i heard his name i was meant to be with this man. Now i guess we won't end up married, but he has been a huge, wonderful thing in my life and hopefully will be for awhile.

~jen

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Sun, 03-14-2004 - 9:30pm


Hi Jenn,

I'm glad that you're working things out with your MM. How are you handling adjusting to not thinking about marriage?

I'm not sure I'll ever get there. ::frowns:: Although I've been divorced for eleven years, and I'm not sure I want to be married, either. ROFL

Good luck and keep us posted!

Cazrida

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Sun, 03-14-2004 - 9:47pm
Caz,

i am adjusting fine to the no marriage thing (but remember, it's been five months for me since i found out he changed his mind).

Things are fine with MM and i. We had this little spat i posted about. i have decided not to push the dating issue. i will when i am ready. Neither one of us are ready for that either.

Glad to hear things are well with you. You're still spending lots of time together and having fun i hope.

~jen

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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 8:45am

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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 11:41am

I met my MM online.

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Registered: 11-19-2003
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 12:17pm
I met my OM online. We were chatting in a divorce forum. Soon I separated and MM is still with his wife trying to figure out what he needs to do about his marriage. At first we exchanged our IM info and then our numbers. He wanted me to contact him first but I was scared so I told him to do it, if he wanted to... Finally he got the idea that I wasn't to all him so he called. LOL The rest is history as they say...

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