want to seperate

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Registered: 03-11-2004
want to seperate
Sun, 03-14-2004 - 9:01pm


Just a little update. I met up with the other man on Friday and we went bowling and a few cocktails and it was a blast as always. :-) I ended up spending the night,again!

Hubbie called my cell phone on Saturday am. Furious and I can't blame him for that.

I told him who I was with and that I did indeed spend the night with the om. Of I course I wasn't honest about the touching and feeling. So, I told hubbie that I want a seperation and need time to figure out what I want and need. So, I spent the night at my parents house Saturday pm. ANd came home today Sunday. And my husband gave me the guilt trip of we have to make this marraige work. Since we've only been married 2 yrs together 16. And one have advice on how deal with the guilt of our h's???? I know what I need and I say it. But h just makes it so hard for me. They tears get me evertime

And yes, I have deep feelings for other man. And him the same. But I do need the time away from both. But I find myself wanting to spend all my free time with om.