What a horrible weekend....
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What a horrible weekend....
| Mon, 03-15-2004 - 9:33am |
I don't even know where to start - I went to happy hour friday night - I called OM at home - we talked for 5 minutes - that was it. My H found his number in my cell phone - I lied and said it was something else - he found the number on old bills - I told him this guy was my friend but that's it - he is totally freaked out.
I told OM this morning that it's over. We can't see each other any more. I want to make my marraige work...H is SO upset and hurt - I keep insisting that nothing happened but he doesn't believe me. He said if it wasn't for the kids he'd be gone. I don't know what is going to happen - the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I can't function at work and H is jealous b/c he knows that OM works here too and that we will see each other.
Any advice? I'll answer any questions too - I know I left a lot out.
Thanks,
no longer T's secret

T, just keep denying everything....hopefully you and H can make it work. I'll be thinking of you!
You do not want your husband catching you in any more Lies, if he is going to discover the truth it is better that you tell him first so that he knows that you really want to work things out, if he finds stuff out 6 weeks from now that you with held or lied about kiss your marriage goodby because it is seen as ongoing betrayal by the spouse.
It's to late for the DENY DENY DENY mind set.
F