I think its over

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Registered: 03-13-2004
I think its over
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Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:04am

Well, I think it's over for us.

Hot

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:22am
I'm sorry Hot, don't you just hate it when men are acting stupid. I would go with the NC thing and see what happens. I have a feeling that maybe he's feeling some guilt or something right now, but after a while, he'll probably get in touch with you. I know it's hard. Damn near unbearable, but either way, NC will either bring him back or set him free. You are in my thoughts!
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:54am
Maybe you should just wait and see what happens. Before you get all upset and everything (believe me, I know that, BTDT).

Just NC him and wait and see til he gets ahold of you.

I know that is the hardest thing to do, but the best. And try to stay calm until you hear from him whats up. Maybe you are jumping the gun about it being over.

I had NC from MM for 8-1/2 weeks this fall, I thought that it was completely over and I went from devastated to angry over the course of that time.

Then he got back in touch and told me the reasons why I didn't hear from him for so long. Which I accepted, but it was really hard to do, and if he does that again, next time I may not take him back.

Maybe you should just give your guy a little time, let him tell you what's up, and take it from there.

Dusty
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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-13-2004
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 10:11am

Thanks for letters.

Hot

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 10:21am
Hi again, seems like we tell ourselves we dont "love' them but then we get all upset when we don't hear from them for several days.

Its human (or should I say woman) nature to feel like that. Its not just you, its everyone.

But we have to calm down, relax and take a deep breath. And wait. That is the hardest part. I am talking to MM right now, but he's going out of town, so I might not get the chance again til next week. And it will drive me crazy by then!! take care,

Dusty
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