Want OM all to myself!
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Want OM all to myself!
| Tue, 03-16-2004 - 9:07pm |
Hello everyone! I have been in an A since November and have posted a few times in here before. I'm sooo confused (that should be a surprise-hehehe!) I think I have been confused since November! I have really strong feelings for OM (who has been in a 3 year relationship-not married!) I think I have come to the point where I want OM all to myself! What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel? Any advice would be appreciated!

And let him decide if he wants to be with you and break up with his g/f. You are obviously not happy with the fact that he has the g/f and don't want to be #2 for him.
However, if you are M, I don't think you really have a leg to stand on here. You can't offer him a fulltime relationship anyways, it wouldn't be fair to try and limit him from having one with g/f.
Dusty
I would rethink this relationship. Your OM is having his cake and eating it too. In the end your just going to feel bad about the whole thing. Trust me on this. Maybe you are in an affair to boost your self esteem but a guy who's screwing two women (pardon my french) is not going to give you that! He may tell you wonderful things to keep you on the hook (extra, good sex is hard to give up) but you will just get more and more upset that he's not giving up the GF because if you are as wonderful, special, talented ect. as he says you are, he WOULD give her up. Good luck.
Dusty