Didn't scratch the surface
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Didn't scratch the surface
| Thu, 03-18-2004 - 11:51am |
Ok - I am new to this board, so please bare with me. I have known this man for 4 years at work - stictly professional but very close relationship. Finally, out of the blue he begins to flirt, I flirt one thing led to another and we crossed the line. Everything was going well and right before our next mtg he says that the guilt is to much and we would have to end it sooner than later. The longer it went on the harder it would be. Now he wants to go back to being friends, but is afraid to be along with me because what he would do. For me I don't have guilt and haven't even satisfied my needs - this is driving me crazy. Part of me is sad because this will impact our friendship but the other part of me is MAD that he is making the rules when I haven't even scratched the surface. We have to continue to see each other at work and I really don't want to make this easy for him by laying low. From all indications he enjoyed our first meeting so I dont' think it is from a lack of desire. I think he is just being a wimp.
