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| Fri, 03-19-2004 - 8:47am |
In my case, DH just recently found out that I have a deep friendship with MF (what I call my MM). He doesn’t know exactly HOW deep the feelings run, but I think he suspects. DH found out because MF’s W found some email and freaked out. She actually found some email last fall and asked us to stop communicating. Then when she found out we still were she insisted on talking to DH. So I had to tell him at least part of what is going on.
I do love DH and certainly don’t want to end my M. I intend to focus my efforts on my M and see if things with DH can improved. In order to do this I know I have to cut way back on my R with MF. But at the same time, I cannot imagine a life without MF. Granted, he has to make his own decisions about his M and what he wants in life. In the end he may decide he doesn’t want ME any more. But as things stand right now, I still feel like I want to continue our “friendship” and MF seems to want this as well. (FYI - Our A was/is emotional – not physical at all.)
Your experience, thoughts and insight are much appreciated.
GB2

Hey GB2,
Not sure if I can help at all... but I will sure try... MM and my relationship is pretty much an email one... we are always in touch via email... can be up to 4 or 5 each way every working day and usually a phone call thrown in once a week... sometimes I'm lucky enough to get an extra one when he can't be bothered with an email.
There is definitely a physical things between us... and can barely keep our hands off one another... but we really only average seeing each other once a month... even though both of us want it more.
Sweet
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Anyway, thank you again for replying - I really appreciate it!
GB2