Possibly pregnant from an aff., married
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Possibly pregnant from an aff., married
| Fri, 03-19-2004 - 10:00am |
I think I may be pregnant from a year long affair. I have no idea how I could have let this happen. We're both married....has anyone ever been in this situation? I don't want my H to know or the other man. So it seems there's only one alternative but that makes me sad. Can this be pulled off totlly anonymously???
Please, any advice will be helpful.
I do know that I can't keep it if I am, so please don't advise me to do so.
H and I haven't had sex in almost a year. I'm so scared and have no one to turn to.
Thanks so much for any advice I may receive.
Please, any advice will be helpful.
I do know that I can't keep it if I am, so please don't advise me to do so.
H and I haven't had sex in almost a year. I'm so scared and have no one to turn to.
Thanks so much for any advice I may receive.

#2, see a dr. asap and try and get that abortion pill, whatever its called. As long as you're not too far along, but it doesn't sound like it, are you? You take these pills for a couple of days and it just makes you cramp up and have a type of bad period.
Good luck to you honey.
Please, first thing, is to get a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant, congratulations! I believe that any child conceived in the womb has the right to his or her own life. Have you or will you discuss with your husband whether to keep or give the baby up for adoption? There are many couples who cannot conceive who can lovingly parent a child even if its not their own. Let me know what you want to do with the baby.
I've never been in this kind of a situation, but really above all else, your child should come first. The only innocent party in this situation shouldn't be forced to suffer the consequences.
The only thing I will say is I think she absolutely must tell the MM. He has every right to know and should at least play a part in the decision. It would be very unfair to not tell him.
Also, whatever decision you make maree, I hope you find peace of mind. I would recommend finding a counselor regardless of what you decide because this will be a difficult path and a difficult choice either way.
But all that said, and even though my point of view is very to the point and totally not PC...if she chooses to go ahead with an abortion, I will not throw stones, for I am not without sin...
Maree, just so you know...my intention is not to be unsupportive, whatever route you take, I will stand with you, and be as supportive as I can! This is a very difficult choice to make...you have my prayers
I understand completely what you are going through and the emotional toll this is going to take. Would like to email you.
sensativesoul
Bfly