need to vent, :)

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Registered: 01-10-2004
need to vent, :)
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 12:44pm

Been with my MM for a long while and one would think I would be used to it by now, but I'm not.


We talked last friday and ended our conversation well. He was going to be home for the coming week cause his little one is on spring break. Like I said we ended our conversertion well. We talk daily while he's at work, but my beef with him is when he's away from work he does not call. Christmas holidays

 

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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 12:59pm
Hey there, if you are whiny then so am I. I don't get called/replied to on time either. I am used to it and some of it his style too. He doesn't believe for the most part write up little notes like I do. He has to sit down and write it all up in one big email, so that takes time and the mood. Thus I get fewer but *concentrated* replies to my little emails.... LOL I am used to it. But haven't gone more than couple of days without any contact like you so, don't know what that would entail. Hang in there...
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 2:03pm
I get so sad when I don't hear from MM...the longest we've ever gone with no contact at all was probably a week (when he was out of town when his dad had his first heart attack). Now he's out of town again until next Wednesday, so that will be another 7-day stretch. For those who know what I'm going through right now, you know how much I just need contact from him....to hear his voice. But, his last IM ended with a kiss (LOL), so I guess I'll live on that for a few more days. I'm just wanting to see him again so much so I can get a real kiss! And a big old bear hug....man, I need one of those so much now!
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 2:08pm
I'm right there with both of you! I re-read some of our old emails to try to get through, but I can't wait for MM to be back home (and he just left!). Hate NC - wishing you and Juliet lots of hugs. Maybe together we can be strong!! :)
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 2:11pm
Sort of our own little "united front!"
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Fri, 03-19-2004 - 2:15pm

Lol, he's like that too.

 

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Sat, 03-20-2004 - 6:46am
Your not being whiny. You can always vent here that's what the board is for! I haven't heard from MM since Tuesday, he was out of town too. And our relationship is kind of similar I think in that we only talk during weekdays, never weekends or evenings. He is very family oriented and that is family time. But it is for me too. I have DC's, they keep my mind and body busy while I'm getting thru the NC!! We're here for each other aren't we? That's what's so great here, to have a place to talk to other people going thru the same thing as you, and help you get thru it.

But man, I can't wait til Monday!! And I'd better hear from him bright and early, because he's going away next week again too and I want my time in with him before he does!! Take care,

Dusty
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Sat, 03-20-2004 - 3:37pm

Sounds very familiar, :). Like clock work when he's back out (at work) he'll call or email. Come monday will be no different. It's just that I'm disappointed that he didn't even bother to do either, :(, in this longer stretch of time.