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| Sun, 03-21-2004 - 4:02pm |
I know you say to be patient and I guess I have no other choice. I guess what I'm asking is how do I slow myself down? You said before to keep making lunch plans and the more he sees me the more I'll be on his mind. We talked on Friday via email and phone and will probably get together this week (I hope) for lunch. What next? We work 20 miles from each other so a weekly lunch thing is out of the question. Hockey will be over in early May and then I will not see him unless this 'thing' has moved to the next level. At least that's what my gut tells me now.
Advice?? I am so lost. And yes, I am emotionally attached. I know this.

As for your question, how do you slow yourself down? Girl, I don't know. I was on the other end. I don't know how my OM was so patient. He always just tells me I was worth the wait. You have to decide if he's worth it.
All I know is that through all of our flirtation, my OM was never far from my mind.
Red
That's some good advice. I know I have a tendency to obsess over things with MM which is bad for 2 reasons. I tend to put unnecessary pressure on him and I drive myself insane wondering about every little thing. Things always seem to go so much better when my mind is occupied elsewhere and things just happen naturally. Now that the weather is warming up perhaps I'll take up rollerblading again to get me out of the house and doing soemthing.
Hang in there vles64. If you can do as Boston said and try to find something else to focus on when you're not talking to MM. I know from experience that is easier said than done but if you can manage it, it will help.
luv
We'll see where this leads me.
Thanks tons.
I sympathize with you, vles, I really do. I know all too well what a loveless, emotionless, sexless marriage is like.