In Love with MM

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Registered: 03-23-2004
In Love with MM
Tue, 03-23-2004 - 1:43pm
I'm involved in an affair with a married man who is 14 years older than me and has been married for 34 years. He is my former boss and I've known him for 15 years. We have been together for 1 1/2 years now. I am also married but seperated living in the same house and have a 13 yr old son. I'm completely in love with this person and he says and acts like he is also in love with me. He has had 2 previous short term affairs in the past 18 years. I have not. We see each other as much as possible (almost every day except weekends but occasionally then too) He does travel quite a bit and is extrmely wealthy. We have so much in common and just really enjoy being together. He calls every day usually at least several times. My "head" tells me I need to leave but my "heart" tells me this is the person I'm meant to be with We do talk about being together but he has never promised me he will leave his marriage. Being apart is so hard but being with him is so wonderful. Need advice and support please.