OM's Fiancee' Called Me - UPDATE!!!

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Registered: 01-02-2004
OM's Fiancee' Called Me - UPDATE!!!
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Tue, 03-23-2004 - 4:12pm
OK, so I decided to call OM's fiancee's cell phone to decline the invitation to his surprise party this Saturday. Due to the fishy circumstances surrounding her call to me and her not revealing where she got my phone number, I thought it was best to steer clear of the whole situation.

Anyway, I called her in the middle of the day, thinking she's busy at work and I can just leave a message and get it over with. WRONG!!! She answered! I was so caught off guard, I'm sure I sounded like an idiot. Anyway, I just said, "Hello, this is Circe, returning your call about OM's party, unfortunately my H and I won't be able to make it, we have another party that day, but thanks so much for thinking of us." I hoped she'd say "OK" and leave it at that, but she started a conversation!!! She asked me if I knew of "any other of his work friends" that I could contact about the party. WTF??? This girl has been rude to me on MULTIPLE occasions, even before I started seeing OM.

But...the kicker came when I casually asked her if she got my cell phone number from Mutual Friend X (who really doesn't even have my #). She said "No, I looked through the numbers on OM's cell phone". !!!!! Cell phones keep records of any outgoing and incoming calls and text messages. If she saw how many times we called each other, she may suspect! Also, she asked me a few ?'s about my wedding, and acted casual, like she was just asking because she is planning a wedding. She also said something like, "Well, I know you always go out with all 'the guys' for happy hour every week" which isn't exactly true, but apparently she thought it was... Very weird conversation. Definitely made me extremely uncomfortable. After the surprise party I will have to let OM know that she got my # from his cell phone. But I don't want to look like I am starting trouble, I just think he should be aware.

The conversation ended when I said I had to go call a parent of one of my students, and thanked her again for the invitation. VERY WEIRD!!!

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Registered: 03-04-2004
Tue, 03-23-2004 - 7:14pm
ok, I said it the first time....

Yikes!

maybe she searched his phone book...

my Nokia phone keeps the last ten numbers called on a quick reference, she might have done that too.

still... weird.