missing him.

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Registered: 04-16-2003
missing him.
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Wed, 03-24-2004 - 10:52pm
Man im sad. I cant call my MM. I have no phone number nor do i know where he lives. It has been like that for over a year. It is what was set up. What can i do you know? I know he works around where i live and i know what he does but i dont know. So i wait. It is not like i wait all day or all night for him to call. My life goes on. I miss him so bad it hurts. Do you all feel like this???

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-14-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Wed, 03-24-2004 - 11:31pm
OMG...OMG...OMG...

What kind of a relationship IS this?

You've been involved with this man for over a year and you know NONE of this information?

God I know just about everything about my MM...

Name, addresses (work and home), 5 different phone numbers...(he has 2 cells, one for here, one in Sconny...both his home numbers, and his office number)...

Now I've heard of DISCREET...but that's downright BS...

Not even an e-mail address???

Sweety, can I give you a piece of advice?

If he's that secretive after over a year, chances are you're not the only one you're seeing...

Wow...


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Registered: 06-24-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 12:11am

Sorry honey... I'm inclined to agree with buckaroo on this one.


I know almost everything about MM... not only do I know all his phone numbers, addresses... home and work... hell! I even know when his wife's birthday is.


I wonder do you even know his full name???


I've had contact numbers from MM from pretty much the get go... it's just that we have an understanding of when we can or can not call... and MM has just suggested now that we really need a way of letting the other know when we are out and available... and he's working on that one.


I could understand if this was all new and that you were still building that trust that needs to be there in an EMA... but a year! honey... I think you may need to reasses your situation and just who it is exactly you are involved in.


I wish you all the best.


luv and hugs

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Registered: 03-05-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 12:59am
Sorry to say it, but I would not call it an A . More like a sexual encounter!!! I really wish you well in finding someone to fill your emotional needs as well. Please don't limit yourself to no feelings. Love is a combination of physical and emotional happiness. I would say you don't have that. To each their own, but myself, I would not waist anymore time on this one !!!

Wishing you a brighter future filled with Love

and self worth.
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Registered: 02-14-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 1:47am
It's funny all that I do know about my MM...

He and his wife's anniversary...

That he was married by a judge, not a big wedding...

Way too much info about the wife...

But I love this man, and we talk about a lot of stuff...and he trusts me with it and knows I would never use it against him...

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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 7:46am
You are not the only one. I don't have MM's phone number either. Other than his car phone which I would never call, how do I know who's in the car? And I don't know his home address although I do know what town he lives in (not my town).

As for work I know the business he is in but not the name or his work number. He has my work number though for emergencies.

We communicate thru email and IM and have been for over 2 years now. It works out okay for us, but I haven't talked to him either for awhile, a week ago Tuesday. He's been out of town on business last week and this week. Anyways, if I wanted to know where he lives and everything I could probably find out easily enough.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 8:47am

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 9:06am
I hate to say it - he might be an axe murderer... Honey its not good to know somebody without knowing a lot with out them. I know everything about my om to the brand of underwear he buys... Yes, that might be easy considering the affair, but you have know something about him. You need to talk to him about this and let him know your apprehensions..
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 9:07am
I know a lot about my MM also...

His full name

His workplace & work number

His cell number

His home address (I've been to his house) and his home number

His wife's name

His wife's workplace & work number

His email address

His birthday

His parents' names and where they live

His sister's name and where she lives

My goodness - even his dogs' names

Pretty much his entire day to day schedule as well....

OMG...I could do some damage if we ever have a fight, couldn't I? Ha Ha

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 9:10am
Dang it, you know way too much girl!! :) J/K
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Registered: 02-16-2004
In reply to: angell2277
Thu, 03-25-2004 - 9:14am
Oooh....Oooh....yeah....I know my MM's underwear brand, too! Too funny!

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