Gave in to AP#2 already ...
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Gave in to AP#2 already ...
| Wed, 01-28-2009 - 2:37pm |
so on Monday i had no contact with #2 at all....
| Wed, 01-28-2009 - 2:37pm |
so on Monday i had no contact with #2 at all....
cant give you much of advice as i beleive you know what you have to do, doing it is not going to be easy. He comes across as being a total control freak, he loves the power he has over you and he is nothing short of being a bully. Id say you need to stand upto him, the more you allow him to control you the more he will take that control. Stand strong and dont respond to him, what other option do you have but to go complete nc with him. If you stick around for fear of your H finding out then this alone can reduce you to a nervous wreck, i speak on the basis that you dont want anything more to do with him. If you do beleive you still want to see him then you still need to stand up to him, this is as all relationships are a two way thing, anything short of that then your burdening on loosing self respect and giving him the power to control the situation and you. Stand up strong many of times they will back down. By running to his demands your are allowing this to happen, if its making you feel beneath yourself then stop it now. As for your h finding out hopefully it wont come to that, but at the end of the day its down to you to find the strength to end this if thats what you truly want. Their are plenty of people here who will help guide you and support you. Noone deserves to be treated this way and your worthy of much more no matter A or no A.
please take care
SS
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
Iluv, I just don't even know what to say to you.
Edited 2/21/2009 4:57 am ET by goblinqueen79
you girls are completely right, all of you.
Kimmie, please listen to the posters who replied to your post.