Do You Ever Talk To AP About H?

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Registered: 01-24-2009
Do You Ever Talk To AP About H?
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Sun, 02-01-2009 - 12:47am

I was so upset last week about something my H did that I found myself crying on AP's shoulder about it.

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Registered: 01-27-2008
Sun, 02-01-2009 - 6:36am

Yes i do. My A is more than just physical, we are very emotionally involved. H is a part of my life as his W is a part of his, so why ignore them as if they dont exsist. One thing my AP has often told me is that im a very loyal person to my H, for when i do talk about him i often just talk about what he has done or how he has made me feel but i never slander, or call him names or

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Registered: 10-23-2008
Sun, 02-01-2009 - 7:33am

Yes - AP & I talk to each other about our spouses. It's part of how we ended up together. We are both in similar situations - staying right now for similar reasons so we are each others shoulders to cry on. It's something we have both said that it's nice to have someone to talk to who really understands what you are going through. Talking to each other is how it makes staying tolerable.

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Registered: 01-22-2009
Sun, 02-01-2009 - 8:12am
I think its ok to share as you did (it is part of your life) - and I myself would offer support but I would probably not offer advice...... nor would i solicit advice...... "thin ice" dept but i would share or even vent....
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Registered: 01-17-2009
Sun, 02-01-2009 - 10:48am
Just got off the phone with AP 5 minutes ago venting about my H. We talk to each other all the time about our spouses. He is very good about listening and not bashing my H no matter how angry it makes him for the way I am treated. It is part of our relationship and how we came to be. He tells me to vent to him. It certainly has helped. Usually he tries to make me understand the male perspective of things.