first-timer, trying to figure things out

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2009
first-timer, trying to figure things out
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Tue, 02-03-2009 - 1:53am

Hi all,


I've been lurking around a bit on these boards.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:45am
Hi purple, let me first say, if you are thinking about leaving your marriage, dont do it for anyone but yourself. Especially not an AP, it doesnt seem like he is interested in leaving his situation, and if he is telling you that, it is probably true. It is very early in your marriage, if you want out, get out, if you want to try marriage counceling, it cant hurt, do you think your husband will agree to this? My point is, dont let it go on, the last thing you want is to be like me, and some others on here, married 15 years, never happy, in an affair which seems like infinity, this is no way to live. Take care, and keep us posted.
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Registered: 02-03-2009
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 11:18pm

iggy -- thanks so much for your response.