my poor AP

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Registered: 06-08-2007
my poor AP
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Sun, 02-08-2009 - 6:34pm
our contact lately has been limited due to cirscumstances beyond our control. we message or talk on the phone on sunday nights. he sends me an email tonight. his lpatop fried, his little one is still sick and throwing up, he can't keep up with the laundry. i told him breath and take it one moment at a time. he just bought this laptop at christmas. i bought the same one. it will be harder to talk because his office is upstairs, the kids are down stairs. we will see.

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Registered: 04-04-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Sun, 02-08-2009 - 7:43pm
Well here's the way that I look at it's still waay easier to keep in contact with your AP (even with a broken laptop and) then it was even 20 years ago.
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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Sun, 02-08-2009 - 7:51pm
i know. he just bought this laptop. it's only a month and half old. i liked his so much, i bought the next model up. just between the laptop, his son being sick, laundry, it's got to be crazy for him right now.
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Registered: 08-31-2008
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 12:27am

Laundry can get overwhelming, I can attest to that.
Dealing with laundry on top of having an affair can really make life tough for a poor man:)

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Registered: 08-02-2000
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 12:51am
I'm confused. In other posts you said that you were no longer in an affair with him and that you were just good friends. So are you or are you not involved in an affair with him, for clarification purposes?
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Registered: 02-06-2009
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 4:10am
I agree....sometimes I really lose it when I have to separate the whites from the colors!!!!!! ;D

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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 7:26am
stop with you sarcastic remarks. his son is extremely sick, he has the flu and is vomiting all over the place. so it's constant laundry replacing his clothes and bed sheets.
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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 7:29am
we are very good friends. i call him my AP because other people have said it's an EA, i say we are friends. yes we still email, call on the phone, and use messenger.
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Registered: 02-06-2009
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 8:21am
kids get sick tori...it happens. I wasnt really

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Registered: 06-08-2007
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 10:22am
believe it or not, since he's not working right now, and his wife is, he's a stay at home dad for now. he does everything around the house.
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Registered: 08-02-2000
In reply to: tori2007
Mon, 02-09-2009 - 5:04pm
Ok, well thanks for clarifying. I would have to agree with others that have told you it's still an affair, even if it's only emotional. I believe that any relationships that has emotions attached to it, is kept a secret from spouses, is an "affair" whether you're sleeping together or not.

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