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how to take the next step?
| Mon, 02-09-2009 - 2:38pm |
Hi ladies,
I wanted your opinion. I am a MW. There is a single man who has expressed his undying love for me. We have become the best of friends over 2yrs. I know he loves me but he respects me.
It has been bothering me for a long while because I believe I have fallen in love with him.

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Hi there,
I understand how you feel. If he says that he doesn't want to go further out of respect for your marriage please take his word and leave it at that, it's not worth losing a great friendship over. Most A's turn out horribly and hurt a lot of people in the process. If I were you I would do a little introspection on the state of your M and if it's worth working on or not. My therapist always says it's better to be single than in a bad marriage.
hugs and good luck,
trix xo
Thankyou for your advice.
I am just not sure how to turn off my feelings for him.
Hi trixie,
Don't always believe what your therapist tells you lol. Just kidding but studies show that married people live an average of 5-7 years longer than single people. Give me the misery and i'll take the extra 7 years of life.
As to taking control2009, maybe try writing a letter or email. If you are shy it may be easier than talking about it. But don't pursue anyhting unless you are truly unhappily married and willing to lose your spouse. Good luck and take baby steps
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Hi,
I guess this is perhaps what I need to do. Rehearse and then say by phone.
I think the
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