So sad

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Registered: 12-11-2008
So sad
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Tue, 02-10-2009 - 5:42pm
Without going into too much detail, there is a good chance AP may be moving out of state. No final decisions have been made yet but it's a possibility. We have talked it through and the thought is so devastating to me.
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Registered: 02-08-2009
In reply to: the_other_me
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 8:35pm
My very good friend has been in a long distance affair since August - they have worked logistics and see each other every 2 or 3 months. They communicate each day (phone/e-mail/IM) and so far so good. If you want to maintain the relationship you can - its just a little work it is well worth the effort - Hugs and all the best
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Registered: 02-05-2009
In reply to: the_other_me
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 8:41pm

Is it possible to make it work...

I am in a 3-year LDR with a MM. 3000 miles away. We text, email every day and talk almost every day. We see each other approx. a week or two every 6 wks. We are very much in love still.

good luck and hugs,

trix

Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about learning to
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Registered: 10-23-2008
In reply to: the_other_me
Tue, 02-10-2009 - 10:13pm

My best friend has been in a LDA for 20 years now. Both are M - he his first M - she is on her 2nd M - yet they are still going. They email & talk a couple of times a week and he travels to the area for business several times a year and they see each other then. It seems to work for her