We Met to Say Goodbye Today

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Registered: 06-27-2008
We Met to Say Goodbye Today
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Thu, 02-12-2009 - 4:38pm

Well, against the advice of many, I met with my brief AP to end it at his request.

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Registered: 02-05-2009
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 5:06pm

Hi there,

I think that what he told you makes sense... seems like he came to his senses, I would advise to believe him. I'm sorry you are in this situation. (((hugs)))

trixie xo

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 5:10pm

Be glad he had the good sense to realize this as a big mistake rather than wait till someone turns "fatal attraction" and you both lose your jobs.

>>>"The only thing I can say that turned out badly is that seeing him made me extremely horny! Am I being a sucker again to believe what he said?"<<<

It's not his responsibility to take care of your horniness, you can take care of that easily by yourself. You're smart to believe what he says. He doesn't want to get into a big messy A with you.

Look at it all as a blessing in disguise.



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Registered: 12-06-2007
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 5:15pm

Wait - I don't understand what he said that if you believed would make you a sucker?

 

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Registered: 06-27-2008
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 7:27pm

OBXBell, if you see some of my other posts, you'll understand.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-27-2008
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 7:35pm

Hi again -


I didn't address your other question, sorry.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Thu, 02-12-2009 - 7:55pm

I have read your other posts green - I just wasn't sure what part of what he told you were referring to about believing.