He's just not that into me
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| Fri, 02-13-2009 - 10:45pm |
Well, the discussion title says it all. I have been with my AP for three years. I have told him that I want to have contact once a week and for him to call me once in a while to see how I am doing. In the beginning, we never talked about anything family etc,...well over time, of course we talk, laugh etc. It is obvious to me now that he can and has been able to keep our relationship in check fwb...
I am on the other hand, having feelings for him. I want to talk to him everyday. i want to have him call me all the time, etc. He has called a bit more and has been a little more attentive, but not much. We talked yesterday and then today he was on his way to Ga and I asked if he wanted me to call him. He said yes after 9 am. Well, I did and we talked about 30 minutes. I then texted him and he said he was almost to Ga. I tried to call him and he put me to his voice mail. I texted him to tell him to have a good weekend and no text back.
I know I am feeling more for him than me. He has even told me that when I was asking him to call me etc. he said he does care for me, but that I may care more for him. That being said - it is true. It saddens me, however, neither of us want to leave our spouses so what do I expect? I guess I just like have someone chasing me.
I am gonna wait until next Thursday to call him. I may talk to him once again before cutting all ties. I am just sick of the difficult time getting ahold of him etc. I have an old fwb who does call me and gives me the attention I need....we just don't have sex anymore.
I am married, and love my hubby, but he just fails to give me the attention and sex that I need...trust me, I have been to therapy, we have been together, etc. I am not going to leave him.
So...I guess I just needed to tell someone that I realize that I have been expecting too much from him and that I am the one who has changed not him....
any thoughts?
tia
