Since you are now a mother of three with no means to support yourself and them, I don't think going after another relationship is the best option you should take. Does "myspaceguy" know you have three kids? BTW, who's taking care of these kids when you're out there galavanting?
Forget about what you want for now. You have "BIG" responsibility to these kids and they should come first. What do you think is in their best interest? In my opinion, no one will treat those kids better than their bio Dad. So, instead of obsessing over OM, you need to button down and think of a way to get yourself independent. What skills do you need to acquire to get a decent paying job so that if this R you have with your LIBF is not working for you anymore, you can get out with dignity.
It's very rare in this day and age that there are still men out there who will swoop in and save a damsel in distress. Most of them want a strong independent woman who can take care of herself. You didn't say if "myspaceguy" is M. If he is, then he could just want a "booty-call" on the side who's a willing participant.
Please give it a good thought. A good life and future requires good planning. Also, now is a good time to invest in a good pregnancy prevention method.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
if you do decide you wanted to take the step and move on with your life on your own. in certain states, i dk which one you are in, you can get help with state funded day care. it can help to pay for your children while you go to work or school. this could help with having no family to fall back on. what ever you choose, good luck to you.
Since you are now a mother of three with no means to support yourself and them, I don't think going after another relationship is the best option you should take. Does "myspaceguy" know you have three kids? BTW, who's taking care of these kids when you're out there galavanting?
Forget about what you want for now. You have "BIG" responsibility to these kids and they should come first. What do you think is in their best interest? In my opinion, no one will treat those kids better than their bio Dad. So, instead of obsessing over OM, you need to button down and think of a way to get yourself independent. What skills do you need to acquire to get a decent paying job so that if this R you have with your LIBF is not working for you anymore, you can get out with dignity.
It's very rare in this day and age that there are still men out there who will swoop in and save a damsel in distress. Most of them want a strong independent woman who can take care of herself. You didn't say if "myspaceguy" is M. If he is, then he could just want a "booty-call" on the side who's a willing participant.
Please give it a good thought. A good life and future requires good planning. Also, now is a good time to invest in a good pregnancy prevention method.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
Edited 2/22/2009 8:47 pm ET by lost_like_this