Out of curiosity i just needed to ask, and please dont get me wrong im not being rude or judgemental. You state you love AP1, then what kind of love is it as I am deeply in love with my ap, Im married but i know im not in love with my H anymore and ive told him this. At the moment im preparing to end my M (lots of complications ). I know that if i was in love with my H i would not be having this A. But as AP and I have decided that we are both in love and want to attempt a future together (at some point - determined not to leave my M for ap) i couldnt think about sleeping with someone else behind ap's back.
Like i said im not being judgemental, just curious. You state you love ap2 but yet you have continued to see and sleep with ap 1 (forgive me if i have gotten it wrong). Are you M?
I do wish you luck and good for you for standing up to ap2. Noone deserves to be treat as a doormat as you say.
take care hun
SS
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
Im truly sorry if my post has offended you. And no im not being judgemental at all, i was just basically asking a a question out of curiosity. I do think you took my reply totally the wrong way. Who am i to judge as im in a A also. I also agreed that you shouldnt be a doormat in my reply to you, the rest was simple curiosity nothing less nothing more, i never slated you in any way.
I don't have advice or anything but just to be supportive, I relate to where you are. I also have 2 AP and am M also. Plus there's another AP who really it's not an A but more an occasional ONS when he's in the area on business. I learned the hard way to try to keep emotions out of it. I have no desire to end my M. It has its benefits :). But I won't give up having fun also. This is just me. Obviously not for everyone. If an AP disrespected me or started to get possessive I would so end it. We don't have to accept what doesn't work for us. There are plenty of men around and most of them mare available. ... thx
hi
Out of curiosity i just needed to ask, and please dont get me wrong im not being rude or judgemental. You state you love AP1, then what kind of love is it as I am deeply in love with my ap, Im married but i know im not in love with my H anymore and ive told him this. At the moment im preparing to end my M (lots of complications ). I know that if i was in love with my H i would not be having this A. But as AP and I have decided that we are both in love and want to attempt a future together (at some point - determined not to leave my M for ap) i couldnt think about sleeping with someone else behind ap's back.
Like i said im not being judgemental, just curious. You state you love ap2 but yet you have continued to see and sleep with ap 1 (forgive me if i have gotten it wrong). Are you M?
I do wish you luck and good for you for standing up to ap2. Noone deserves to be treat as a doormat as you say.
take care hun
SS
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
hi,
Im truly sorry if my post has offended you. And no im not being judgemental at all, i was just basically asking a a question out of curiosity. I do think you took my reply totally the wrong way. Who am i to judge as im in a A also. I also agreed that you shouldnt be a doormat in my reply to you, the rest was simple curiosity nothing less nothing more, i never slated you in any way.
"be yourself, disguise not, for your a truly unique beautiful being"
I don't have advice or anything but just to be supportive, I relate to where you are. I also have 2 AP and am M also. Plus there's another AP who really it's not an A but more an occasional ONS when he's in the area on business. I learned the hard way to try to keep emotions out of it. I have no desire to end my M. It has its benefits :). But I won't give up having fun also. This is just me. Obviously not for everyone. If an AP disrespected me or started to get possessive I would so end it. We don't have to accept what doesn't work for us. There are plenty of men around and most of them mare available. ... thx
jana