Wife Knows - He Says She's Gotten Over

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Wife Knows - He Says She's Gotten Over
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Sat, 02-21-2009 - 6:27pm

I mentioned in another post that AP's wife received an anonymous letter last Thursday informing her of our affair.

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Registered: 12-27-2008
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 7:52pm
Are you the anonymous letter writer?
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Registered: 12-24-2008
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 7:57pm
Simple...he sugar coated it, told her a completely different story than what was actually true, kissed her ass and promised he'd do ANYTHING to make it up. :)
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Sat, 02-21-2009 - 8:20pm
Are you kidding?
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Registered: 06-27-2008
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 8:28pm

Obviously, I don't know what the real situation is at his house.

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Registered: 12-24-2008
Sat, 02-21-2009 - 10:51pm
Oh, green....these guys must all be related somehow..seriously. Ya know, my XAP was supposed to have an HONEST talk with his wife when he left her 2 weeks ago, but apparently, she pulled up and caught him moving his stuff out and drove off then wouldn't answer her phone to talk to him...so, he didn't get the HONEST talk about leaving her because he was IN love with me and wanted to BE with me...over the next few days, he kept saying she would not talk to him, but you know what I found interesting...is how he started acting paranoid about people seeing us together ( they'd been seeing us for 2 months) and was all of a sudden being pissed off about his wife hearing "rumors" about us...I was like, WTF...why are you denying all this to your daughter ( because everything he said to her gets back to her mom) about what what is being said when it's the truth?! You said you were going to be honest and tell her you were leaving so we could be together. So, see, when push came to shove, he lied out his ass, when big, brave MM couldn't handle sleeping alone, when he didn't have someone to cook and clean for him, when he didn't have someone kissing his ass to keep him around, when he didn't have his extra allowance money left over to spend how he pleased, he decided to bail and the only way to get back into his comfort zone was to lie his way back in.
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Sat, 02-21-2009 - 11:25pm

My thoughts are that maybe she didnt receive any letter... and that hes blowing smoke up your... er... tailpipe...


or.. as one poster has suggested... that you might possibly be the source of such a letter... and maybe he intercepted it and is playing out a scenario for you...


or that she did receive it... and he told her the things she wanted to hear... afterall... its quite possible its not the first time she's heard such a story...


or... might even be a sick little game....


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Registered: 02-18-2009
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 9:48pm

I could have wrote your post... Actually I have.

Katie--

Mama to Alyse (5-12-05) and soon-to-be baby (e.d.d. 10-25-10)

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Mon, 02-23-2009 - 10:04pm
Oh, gosh!
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Registered: 02-18-2009
Tue, 02-24-2009 - 11:46pm

Thanks, Green.

Katie--

Mama to Alyse (5-12-05) and soon-to-be baby (e.d.d. 10-25-10)