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He's gone missing
| Sat, 02-21-2009 - 8:08pm |
Firstly, a bit of background on my story - will make it short!
I was over on the EAS board, as we had a Dday where his wife discovered an email. He suggested we stop the A, as everyone, including myself, was getting hurt, and he didn't want to do that to me

I have to reply to this. I am on the EAS board but read some posts here from time to time to remind myself that I'm in a better place now. Here is the thing..that doesn't surprise me. My XAP went missing on me for almost 6 weeks. We were supposed to meet and he never got back to me. No word. No contact. Nothing. Then he emails me and tries to pretend that it was ME who wasn't keeping in contact. They only care about themselves. You're better off without him..they go missing. It's what they do. Mainly because we are not their W's and they don't feel like they have to play by the rules of a real relationship. What we have/had with them is not a real relationship.
Just move on if you can. I know it hurts to go through this..But trust me you don't want someone who shows such little regard for your feelings in your life.
Don't let this cause you anymore pain..some may have other advice for you. This is just my opinion.
Take Care