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Nearly 2 years
| Sun, 02-22-2009 - 1:05pm |
Hi Everyone:
I formerly posted here regularly, but now confine the discussion of my affair to my email buddies, all whom I met on this board.

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.
You've got a lot of choices. I
Hi Zero -
Welcome back - great to read your update!
And (as usual) - I totally agree with Lexi - I hope you stick around and give the other folks on the board some input from your perspective - and besides - we've missed you!!
Hugs -
Tgr ;)
(and BTW - Hi Lexi - long time no chat!!)
Hi Zero,
Like you, I didn't expect to still be involved with MM - now over 20 months. Our situation, as you know, is much like yours in that I too am in my 50's and H is over 70 and there is a total absence of SR between us as well as a different outlook on life because of the age difference. MM is mid-40's and from the first we met we were head-over-heels for each other. Although we had our first d-day a year ago, we still manage to communicate with each other even though he's monitored closely. We've made several attempts between us to end it but neither has been strong enough to make it stick. Since it's a LDA it's primarily an EA at this point although before d-day we met about every 4-6 weeks. We knew going into it that we weren't leaving our M, even though we'd expressed the desire to be together many times, so it was no surprise to me that once his W discovered the A that he chose to stay. I would say that I'm somewhat in limbo...unable to decide whether to stay in this or end it.
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