a little off topic, therapy part 2

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a little off topic, therapy part 2
Mon, 02-23-2009 - 9:55pm
well as some of know last week i went to see my other therapist and i wrote how she fell asleep in her office and left me waiting for her in the waiting room for 30 minutes. to me after getting opinions from people on here and my AP decided i would no longer go to her. well today i went to a new therapist. well to my surprise i think she may work out. she engaged me from the beginning, she actually made me laugh, and didn't constantly look at the clock. even when my time was up she didn't kick me out, she wanted to make sure everything was said before i left. she seemed pretty easy going. we will see. her thoughts on affairs is something is definetly missing in my and AP marriages to be in an affair. i told her i would like to find out why i'm doing this, and is it evil. i told her i feel no guilt for the affair itself, only i would feel horrible if we where found out. she feels one should not divulge the affair and inflict pain on the spouses. it does no good, only creates hurt. anyway i wanted to give an update. what a difference when you can talk to some one you feel comfortable with.