Yes, in fact, AP used to say that quite often...that his W wasn't ugly, that everytime they go to the bar "they" ( whoever he's referring to) were always hitting on her and he would jokingly ask me if he thought we could set her and my H up together...he did tell me last summer that she had told him that when he was gone one of the MANY times he had moved out, that she had gone out with some guy just for dinner and he was just estatic about it because he said that proved to him that she could go on, but then she supposedly denied it later. He always used to tell me that he had better not see any guys flirting with me or trying to hit on me because he would "beat them" and he wouldn't take it as easy as my husband if I went out on him with another guy....in fact, he would get jealous when I would talk about doing things with my husband because he said that it should be him with me....well, so much for all of that....
I've been in a fairly long standing and long distance A.