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Has This ever happen to anybody
| Tue, 02-24-2009 - 2:50pm |
My AP just told his wife and family that he wanted to end M of 26 yrs. Told me he loves me and wants to be with me. I hadn't seen him over a month and we decided to meet last night. He is working about 2 hours away. So anyhow he comes to my house we have a nice dinner everything is going fine till we start getting ready for bed. He tells me he can't do this... and I was like do what?? he said he can't be intimate with me... he is feeling too much guilt..... (now mind you we have been together for 6 months and all the that time we were intimate everytime we saw each other and we saw each other alot.) He said he feels very guilty and he feels like he is throwing is wife away basically because he is being selfish. And then after that he

I don't think there is much you can do other than to let him figure this out.
Hi Star,
There was no confusion on his feelings.. he knew exactly what he was doing and wanted his cake and eat it too. I got a call from his wife today and everything came out in the open.. all LIES and MORE LIES. He never intended to leave her, in fact made up all this stuff about telling her and the kids that he was leaving. HE NEVER SAID A THING ABOUT LEAVING! In fact told her that he is fully committed to her and they are suppose to start counseling so that they can work on their M. Then he turns around and tells me more lies how me and him are finally going to be together... well she painted a totally different picture of exactly what is going on. Isn't it funny how the truth comes out when you hear both sides of story! After he found out that his W and I had conversation he emails me. He says that he loves both of us and was really trying to figure a way out to leave!! OMG he never stops! I told him to go shove it but in very colorful words that I can't type on here....
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