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His explanation for this time
| Fri, 02-27-2009 - 8:12pm |
Okay...AP left his wife for the 5th time 3 weeks ago....went back to her last week and sent me a text last Thursday saying he had made up with her, his love for her was more than ours and he was sorry, he would never do this to her again....well, we work together and after 3 days of him avoiding me, I couldn't bite my tongue. I caught him at the door the other morning and told him "you don't have to run away from me, I'm not going to BOTHER you" and he says "I'm not avoiding you, I told you we would talk" and I said, "whatever..the minute I pull into the parking lot you're out of your vehicle practically running in the door" so he says, "lets go talk now" so, we go to his vehicle and the first thing he says is "can i ask you a question...when you are out with your husband, anywhere, even in the stores, do you hold hands, walk arm in arm?" and i was like, what the hell are you talking about? Well, apparently, he had been hearing from some co-worker(s) that I had been seen with my husband and we were apparently laughing, holding hands and looked SO in love....long story short, he said that it upset him when he heard this and this person(s) had talked to him about the possibility that I was just playing him and maybe i was trying to get "revenge" for him hurting me in the past year by leaving me to go back to his wife. I was like, you honestly think I would do something like that? If I wanted revenge, I would've done it before now...I told him I have never lied and never played him and he was the one playing me when he was telling me one thing and his wife another. Well, he said that doing things my way was hard on him because he is weak when it comes to emotions and being alone...he cannot be alone and said he really needed me and not just texts here and there and a few days after work together but I told him that I HAVE to do things this way to protect myself and he understands that, but when he heard that about me and trying to deal with the pain of being alone, he couldn't do it. I know damn well the guilt thing from home was kicking in too, but he won't admit that. He says that he paid another month on his place and hasn't moved anything back home, although he is staying in his house....I asked him why and he said because he's not sure what he wants....I asked him what his wife wants and expects and he says that she wants him to get his head straightened out and figure out what he wants but knows he's not with her 100%. He says he is still in love with me and the text that I got was not sent by him...which I suspected because the way it was worded did not sound like him. His aunt who rents their rental next door is the one who grabbed his phone when they were all sitting at her house....she typed the text in, sent it to my number, then showed it to the both of them and said "there, your wife is the one who loves you and she's is who you need to be with!" then she handed him his phone and told him "now knock this sh*t off and start acting like man!"...so whatever...sorry for the long text! :)

Hi gabby,
I'm glad your not getting involved in the drama, I've had a bit of a drama day myself and found myself quite caught up in it today.
((( hugs)))
I cant believe this !! he tells you by text that he has gone back to his W ? I totally understand that leaving a M has never been an easy task but this is kinda ridiculous.
Dont get sucked back as he will try to keep you on the side.
cheer yourself up and keep well.