Confused

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Confused
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Sat, 02-28-2009 - 10:18pm

Here goes nothing..........may be long so please be patient.


I am not exactly new around here (was on here years ago under different name) however I may

 

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Registered: 02-04-2009
In reply to: kristinintexas
Sat, 02-28-2009 - 11:40pm
I am the single person in my A and I will tell you that what you did you should have never have done.
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In reply to: kristinintexas
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 2:15am

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: kristinintexas
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 10:51am

hey how are you? i cannot imagine how you must feel being the married ap.

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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In reply to: kristinintexas
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 3:47pm

I never said I loved him because I don't know that I do. I know I feel something for him but not sure what you would call it. More than like but not sure love. XAP and I had an intense connection. I loved him very much but couldn't continue the A afer W finding out muliple times.

 

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Registered: 10-03-2008
In reply to: kristinintexas
Sun, 03-01-2009 - 4:38pm
to be honest with you, i could not imagine being in your shoes...and it gives me a perspective on how the married parties in these types of situations must feel...but, i'm just saying, doesn't seem like you are willing to leave and you've done this before...thats why i say serial cheater...like maybe when you start feeling what you are missing from your marriage you seek out the other guy...it's a pattern because you've done it before.in a case like yours i'd say let him go and focus on your marriage...seriously...that's where you want to be...you already know how it's gonna go because you have history to gage this by....feel me...i wish you the best and hope you make a decision that is gonna best fit you without hurting anyone else.....((HUGS))

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss