How do you take your A?

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Registered: 11-13-2008
How do you take your A?
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Mon, 10-26-2009 - 2:24pm

I am pretty much content in my A inspite of being a SW with MM.something got me wondering today after reading some posts.

1. Do you respect your AP , knowing that he is telling lies to his W to be with you? ---- I do.Without respect,love wont last long enough to sustain the kind of rship an A is.AP is human and him loving someone other than his spouse doesnt entitle him to be disrespected.I hold him in high esteem.

2.Are you willing to put in the emotions/feelings to make it a long term A if the AP stays married? ----- I am. Mine is 2 years now.AP was divorcing when we met but things got muddled up and he is married but now i seem to be doing well with it.it was tough earlier on but as time has passed ,i am getting to understand that leaving a M after Dday can be tricky.Am i ready to go another 5 years like this?YES.i would rather have him little than nothing at all.i have basically more than his W.I have his heart!

3. You believe you are in A fog? ---- Nope, not any more.I was up until a year ago but the fog is no more there and it feels like a real rship with some limitations though, which are even in a normal rship as well.

4. Do you really believe that AP is your soulmate?made especially for you?--- yes,no doubts here.

5. If his W was to find out, you think AP will throw you under the bus and make you the bad guy?----- No way.we had a dday but MM stood by me like a rock.

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Registered: 12-18-2008
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 7:50am

1. Do you respect your AP , knowing that he is telling lies to his W to be with you? ---- I guess so, I never thought about it. I am doing as much lying as my APs are, probably even more since I lie to them also, so how can I disrespect them for doing what I'm doing.
2.Are you willing to put in the emotions/feelings to make it a long term A if the AP stays married? ----- I leave my heart out of it. Learned that the hard way a long time ago.
3. You believe you are in A fog? ---- I guess I am always in some sort of A fog. When the fog lifts it's time to move on.
4. Do you really believe that AP is your soulmate?made especially for you?--- I thought that once about an AP a few years ago but that all blew up. Now they are man candy for me.
5. If his W was to find out, you think AP will throw you under the bus and make you the bad guy?----- Yes, it's happened before. Men want their booty, but they'll sacrifice their booty to keep whatever else matters to them. I'm just a side dish, and to me, so are they.

-jana

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2008
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 11:52pm
Ahh. A breath of reality!! I second your missive! I love my privacy. I love sex What else? Oh Korean dramas! :)
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