Does your AP ever go MIA?

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Registered: 07-02-2009
Does your AP ever go MIA?
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Mon, 10-26-2009 - 7:56pm
I've been in my A for 2 1/2 years and mostly it's good...but occasionally AP will go MIA and I won't hear from him for a few days.
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Registered: 08-21-2003
Mon, 10-26-2009 - 10:19pm
Have you ever told him how you feel when he does this? If so, what was his response? Did he reassure you that it was nothing to do with his feelings for you? My AP has not pulled this, but there are days when I feel our pattern of communication has changed and I get scared that his feelings are changing. He always reassures me that there are other reasons why the pattern changed, and that I should never doubt his feelings for me.
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Registered: 09-07-2009
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 2:01am

No he does not. I know he is always with me.

But cherishing please don't assume the worst~~~yes they are busy yes they get sidetracked and it isn't always a reflection on you, and or you and him. Sounds like you have great communication. Keep that and you two will be fine.

Remember sometimes when they go quiet its because they are
protecting the R.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-09-2008
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 6:32am

Well, my x/AP is pretty good in contacting me EVERY single day for 1 1/2 year. When he did go MIA - its because he was having sex with W (or so I have come to find out).


She was pregnant - just gave birth this weekend (right the day before my bday!), and I had saved our text messages since we start seeing each other.